The Original Fag HagA female, typically straight, who prefers the company of gay men. Also, Fruit Fly, QueerGay. Can be used interchangeably as a term of pride or as a derogatory term, depending on context. A term intentionally and politically reclaimed by some, in protest of the term’s historical use as a slur. Dear, HomosocialiteA fag hag who particularly enjoys the company of A-Gays, and who travels comfortably in their highly exclusive scene., HomosociologistA fag hag who appreciates and actively participates in a wide range of gay subcultures, and who takes particular pride in being accepted as one of the gays in settings that typically include no women or straight persons., GoldilocksA fag hag who enjoys the company of bears. gets to live the dream again, this time performing with Race Cooper and Joanna Parks at Industry‘s Local Talent Night. DJ Jamie J Sanchez provided the hot remix of a too-perfect song, and you can see him cheering us on from behind the decks as we get as Nasty as we know how to be… Huh. It’s time to jam. Nasty BoyA younger gay man (see “Twink”). Also used to refer to the submissive in a relationship, i.e. “DaddyAn older gay man. He may or may not prefer the company of younger men, but if he does and if he is moneyed, he is likely to be the dominant or top in the relationship. Also, “Leather Daddy.” and Boy.”, dance dance dance!
Serendipity on the circuit: My dear friend Sean Bulmer and I share a gogo tradition: This is the second time he’s carried me off the box and into the swirl, and it sure seems like coincidence that the DJ starts playing Rihanna’s “Only Girl in the World” at just the perfect moment, right when the spotlight hits. Thanks to Steven Spraragen for the memorable video, and to everyone at Fresh, where I always feel like the only girl in the world. The privilege and pleasure is all mine!
A memorable day with Ejector produced this sexy, haunting, and beautiful video. Gotta love Ejector’s unique blend of leatherLeather culture is found in all lifestyles, but among gay men it refers to practices and styles of dress organized around hedonism and eroticism ("kink"). One way this culture consciously distinguishes itself from mainstream sexual cultures is through a specifically homoerotic aesthetic that draws from post-World War II biker culture as well as military and police uniform. Leathermen art, such as Tom of Finland, represents the hypermasculine ideal. Literature like The Leatherman’s Handbook speaks to the culture and the code. The International Mister Leather organization speaks to the community., glitter, and goth (not to mention HUGE talent!). Perfectly San FransexualDescribes the inability to accurately or appropriately describe one’s sexual orientation due to the fact that one lives in San Francisco, a hedonism capital of the world that represents every sexual proclivity under the rainbow and defies categorization. Describes the gray area of the Kinsey Scale, in which most San Franciscans live comfortably. and utterly fabulous.
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Beyonce is my favorite diva of all, so getting to bring a Blaxploitation version of her fierce song and video to the stage at Industry amounted to pure circuit fantasy. Race Cooper and Lemiron Stallings made my silly afro look so good, and DJ Jamie J Sanchez gave us a hot remix, as well as a cheer from behind the decks. Special thanks to DJ Luke Johnstone for providing the opportunity, and to my DaddyAn older gay man. He may or may not prefer the company of younger men, but if he does and if he is moneyed, he is likely to be the dominant or top in the relationship. Also, “Leather Daddy.” Woofy for providing the video.
You know you’re a hard-core fag hagA female, typically straight, who prefers the company of gay men. Also, Fruit Fly, QueerGay. Can be used interchangeably as a term of pride or as a derogatory term, depending on context. A term intentionally and politically reclaimed by some, in protest of the term’s historical use as a slur. Dear, HomosocialiteA fag hag who particularly enjoys the company of A-Gays, and who travels comfortably in their highly exclusive scene., HomosociologistA fag hag who appreciates and actively participates in a wide range of gay subcultures, and who takes particular pride in being accepted as one of the gays in settings that typically include no women or straight persons., GoldilocksA fag hag who enjoys the company of bears. when… Your birthday looks like a scene out of QueerGay. Can be used interchangeably as a term of pride or as a derogatory term, depending on context. A term intentionally and politically reclaimed by some, in protest of the term’s historical use as a slur. as Folk, and you are lovin it, certain that you’re livin the dream. This is a long clip, and clearly I’m a faux voguer, but really? It’s my birthday and I’m gogo dancin at San Francisco’s best circuit partyA dance event with historical origins in the gay community’s response to the AIDS crisis. Originally conceived as fundraisers and a means to celebrate life amidst loss, today’s circuit is global and extensive, with highly produced parties that sometimes have a community outreach component and sometimes are commercialized ventures. Circuit events are an expression of freedom as well as a statement of the power and strength of the gay community, but they are not without controversy, as they are often identified with a high degree of superficiality, promiscuity, and drug use. Some of the larger circuit parties are the White Party in Palm Springs, the Black and Blue Party in Montreal, and the Winter Party in Miami, each of which attracts attendees in the thousands to tens of thousands. See “Gay CruiseA term used in verb form to refer to checking out another gay man, perhaps in a sexually predatory way, but primarily characterized by nonverbal signals for sex. Also can be used in noun form to refer to the person being cruised, i.e. “Don’t eyeball my cruise.” Not to be confused with a floating bathhouse of a boat chartered by Atlantis Events (see “gay cruise”)..”, and Madonna is playing, and my San Framily is cheering me on? A Kim English song comes to mind… “When I look around, I cannot take for granted. Things given to me, the favor I’ve been handed. All the miracles, and wonders I have witnessed. I do not guess – I know that I am truly blessed!” Special thanks to Randy Moore for the video.
This is what it looks like when a lifelong fag hagA female, typically straight, who prefers the company of gay men. Also, Fruit Fly, QueerGay. Can be used interchangeably as a term of pride or as a derogatory term, depending on context. A term intentionally and politically reclaimed by some, in protest of the term’s historical use as a slur. Dear, HomosocialiteA fag hag who particularly enjoys the company of A-Gays, and who travels comfortably in their highly exclusive scene., HomosociologistA fag hag who appreciates and actively participates in a wide range of gay subcultures, and who takes particular pride in being accepted as one of the gays in settings that typically include no women or straight persons., GoldilocksA fag hag who enjoys the company of bears. dies and goes to heaven. It’s my 38th birthday and I’m working the catwalk at San Francisco’s finest circuit partyA dance event with historical origins in the gay community’s response to the AIDS crisis. Originally conceived as fundraisers and a means to celebrate life amidst loss, today’s circuit is global and extensive, with highly produced parties that sometimes have a community outreach component and sometimes are commercialized ventures. Circuit events are an expression of freedom as well as a statement of the power and strength of the gay community, but they are not without controversy, as they are often identified with a high degree of superficiality, promiscuity, and drug use. Some of the larger circuit parties are the White Party in Palm Springs, the Black and Blue Party in Montreal, and the Winter Party in Miami, each of which attracts attendees in the thousands to tens of thousands. See “Gay CruiseA term used in verb form to refer to checking out another gay man, perhaps in a sexually predatory way, but primarily characterized by nonverbal signals for sex. Also can be used in noun form to refer to the person being cruised, i.e. “Don’t eyeball my cruise.” Not to be confused with a floating bathhouse of a boat chartered by Atlantis Events (see “gay cruise”)..”, with disco ball in hand. My name goes up on the screen and my friends below start cheering, just as the DJ plays Rihanna’s “Umbrella.” Totally epic. Totally unforgettable. Thanks to everyone who came out and made my glittery dreams come true, and thanks to Randy Moore for the video.
Gay Day Great America is about bringing the glitter and glam of San Francisco to the Bay Area masses, and who better to do that with than Charisma Glitterati and Beyonce! This amusement-park performance was the peak of a long day that included more than a few rollercoasters, and with just a few head flips it restored some whack karma that had resulted in a long if unintentional hiatus for this Dreamgirls-inspired threesome. Being Single Ladies with my favorite dancing girls and sharing the stage with Heklina, Dixie Longate, The Perry Twins, and Erasure’s Andy Bell made me happy and gay in every way!
Nothing gets me more inspired than playing the part of Angry Diva for a crowd of circuit boys. Except for if I get to play it with my best friends and at one of my favorite clubs! My Baby BoyA younger gay man (see “Twink”). Also used to refer to the submissive in a relationship, i.e. “DaddyAn older gay man. He may or may not prefer the company of younger men, but if he does and if he is moneyed, he is likely to be the dominant or top in the relationship. Also, “Leather Daddy.” and Boy.” Steven Satyricon rocks the role of letcherous deadbeat ex-boyfriend, while Race Cooper nails the part of my hot new love. My girls Joanna Parks and Charisma Glitterati have my back the whole time, and we dance it out! Big thanks to DJ Luke Johnstone, TobyGo.com’s Rico Ocampo, and my DaddyAn older gay man. He may or may not prefer the company of younger men, but if he does and if he is moneyed, he is likely to be the dominant or top in the relationship. Also, “Leather Daddy.” Woofy Troy Arnold, for the inspiration, the opportunity and the video.
Pinch me, I’m dreaming. Performing at the Bare Chest Finals on May 5, 2009 with two of the finest leathermen dancers I know, and I get to take the lead? And the song is called “Give it to Me Right (Or Don’t Give it to Me at All)”? Yes please! I have so many favorite parts I don’t even know where to begin, and the layers of subtext are positively delicious. Big thanks to Travis Creston and Coop Anderson for the sizzling creative chemistry, and for letting me live out a sweet, sexy fantasy on a very friendly stage for a very worthy cause, the AIDS Emergency Fund.
